A home where children can touch ninety (90) percent of the things in the house. I can experiment. Ten (10) percent include things that are harmful to the child’s life or health, such as electric switches, stoves, sharp knives. Pointed corners, etc.
1- Children can play freely. I can invent games of choice.
2- Children are encouraged for their positive activities.
3- I listen to children without getting angry.
4- May they have a smiling mother and a loving father.
5- Children are given a good amount of time.
6- Children’s smell is happily tolerated.
7- Do not be angry at their noise.
8- Their mischief looks good.
9- I am not instructed all the time to do this and not to do it.
- Don’t let other members of the house shout at each other.
- Children should be respected as if they are a very big personality.
12- They are not prepared for forced work, nor are they tempted by greed.
13- Respect children’s opinions.
14- If the child asks for advice, it is given and if the advice is not accepted, it is not considered bad. - There are interesting books for children, but I am not forced to read them.
16- Don’t be forced to go to school. - They see their parents engaged in positive activities such as reading books, reading the Qur’an, talking to each other, writing and playing, etc.
18- There is no TV, there is no use of other screens, such as mobile, etc.
19- There is no love for material things in the house and there is no talk about it. Don’t want to buy expensive things.
20- Often go for a walk and that too in places of natural beauty. You get a lot of love.
21- Children are trusted. Don’t be suspicious. - Children’s mistakes are celebrated.
- Children are not threatened.
24- Each child has different types of abilities. Their abilities are not compared to any other child. - Do not worry about the loss caused by children, but think about what children have learned from their mistakes?
- May the relationship between Mother and Abu be excellent.
- Children’s complaints are not put before their father.
- Healthy food should be used and artificial food should be avoided.
29- Children are given full opportunity to meet adults. - My father does not fight in front of his children.
- Children’s questions satisfy them.
- Children are encouraged on friendships.
33- A healthy active happy mother should be available to the child at all times. - Children are more taken care of, not household chores.
- Father should be a close friend of children.
36۔ There is no disrespect in front of the guests, nor are they instructed outside the routine for the sake of the guests. - I hear words like thank you, sorry, Inshallah, Alhamdulillah, Assalamo Alaikum and I love you.
- High views are discussed. People don’t have divinations.
- I love Abu Ami very much and my children know this.
40- Come and go to all relatives. - Acts of bravery and bravery. Children are shown and encouraged to do so.
- There is no talk of livelihood in front of the children in the house.
- Children are told stories, and children’s stories are also heard.
- Children should not be spoken in a language they do not understand.
- There should be an atmosphere of simplicity in the house.
35- Do not get angry when children do not listen, but wonder why this is so.
36- Children should not listen to the words “hurry” “What will people say” “When will you grow up” “Be quiet” etc. - The attributes of Allah are conceived from an early age.
- Kissing, hugging, listening to children, etc.